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Cocaine And Sex

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Cocaine has long been associated with sex and has shown up glamorously in pop culture as a way to spice up sex and elevate confidence. In the UK, about one in five young adults have used cocaine at least once in their lifetime and a sizeable proportion of them associate it with unsafe sexual encounters. 

Cocaine is infamous for making sensations more intense, but its effects on sexual health can be extremely harmful. They may cause addiction as well as have a detrimental impact on general physical and mental health.

The use of cocaine in the UK is currently on the rise, particularly in young adults. It is one of the most popular illicit drugs used often in connection with nightlife, parties, and get-togethers. According to the UK government, more adults aged 16 to 59 are using cocaine, mainly in urban areas such as London and Manchester. The widespread availability and use of cocaine have resulted in its association with everything from sexual encounters.

Prevalence Of Cocaine Use In The UK

According to the reports of the Home Office, around 873,000 adults in England and Wales admitted cocaine use in 2023. Men use more of the drug than women, some seeking to improve their social experience, particularly their sexual encounters. Cocaine has a reputation for increasing energy, confidence, and pleasure and can be attractive during sex.

Why People Mix Cocaine And Sex

People mix cocaine with sex for numerous reasons. Many people think cocaine makes them more confident and less inhibited, which can lead to better sex. Others have noted that they get horny on cocaine, even increasing their libido and desire to have sex. Many people believe they can make sex more pleasurable, longer lasting, or intense with cocaine [1].

Cocaine may also be used by people to get over sexual anxiety or to keep sexual stamina going during sexual encounters. However, the effects of cocaine on sexual health are usually short-lived and the extent to which cocaine affects sexual health is very variable and depends on dosage, frequency of use, and the individual’s response to the drug.

Cocaine affects not only the person using the drug but also potentially the relationships, most especially involving intimacy. At first, cocaine can enhance the sexual experience, but long-term use of cocaine can damage trust, emotional connection, and physical intimacy between partners.

Emotional And Physical Impact Of Cocaine Use On Sexual Partners

These relationships can be quite intense as the emotional and physical tend to be affected when one or both partners use cocaine. Cocaine makes sex feel more pleasurable during the act, but if you do it too often, it can also take the pleasure out of sex and lead to emotional detachment. Cocaine can be such a focal point that some partners feel as if they are emotionally distant from their significant other. Cocaine can also produce paranoia, jealousy, and mood swings which put a strain on relationships.

Physically, the drug can make sex difficult and interfere with partners’ ability to enjoy intimacy in the long run. In the beginning, some users have a higher sex drive while using cocaine, but in time using the drug can cause erectile dysfunction in males and decrease sexual satisfaction in females.

Trust And Intimacy In Cocaine Fuelled Relationships

In any case, trust is crucial in any relationship, and cocaine use can destroy it. If users take cocaine to improve their sexual experiences, they may start to conceal their drug use from their partner or engage in risky sexual behaviour outside the relationship. Such secretive behaviour tends to ruin trust and thereby create distance between partners emotionally.

Cocaine also affects mood and behaviour in ways that can make it hard for people to keep communication and emotional intimacy healthy. Cocaine reliance over time can destroy the natural emotional bonds you need for a sexually fulfilling relationship.

Cocaine does make you horny — or at least it makes you think it does — but the reality is a bit more complicated. You can get a temporary boost in energy and even euphoria due to cocaine, but in the long run, it will hurt your sexual health.

Cocaine Sex Drive: Myth Or Reality

Cocaine can have stimulant properties, increasing things such as heart rate, confidence and euphoria which can temporarily increase sexual desire. Perhaps some users, as they note, get sexually aroused more and are more energetic on cocaine and that’s the reason why it is sometimes termed to be linked with the sexual encounters at the parties. That increased sex drive, however, is often short-lived and depends on the dosage and how often you use [2].

While sexual desire surges during the first few months for many of them, sexual dysfunction follows, especially in the long term. The result could be trouble having or maintaining an erection, trouble achieving orgasm, or feeling emotionally detached during sexual activity.

Psychological And Physiological Effects On Libido

So psychologically cocaine can also make you feel more confident, more outgoing, and more adventurous, and so it can increase your sexual interest. But it also makes people more impulsive and more likely to engage in risky sex. Physiologically, cocaine restricts blood flow and ultimately leads to erectile dysfunction and a decreased libido.

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Cocaine disrupts the body’s natural regulation of dopamine, how people experience pleasure, thus affecting how often someone takes cocaine [3]. At first, cocaine might appear to increase libido while it may diminish the ability to feel sexual satisfaction or arousal without the drug.

Users who mix the drug with sexual activity often discuss the concept of a ‘cocaine orgasm.’ A few people think that cocaine can make sex more enjoyable and give you more powerful orgasms. But this heightened feeling of sensation has a price to pay, in the short and long term.

How Cocaine Affects Sexual Pleasure And Satisfaction

Cocaine affects the brain’s dopamine system by creating a high that makes a user ‘high’ and feel euphoric, which can be confused with sexual pleasure. This causes people to believe that cocaine can intensify orgasms and in general increase sexual satisfaction. In some cases, people claim that cocaine makes them feel more in the moment, or prompts them to feel more pleasure during sex.

But these effects are short-lived. The first contact with cocaine may feel pleasurable, but as cocaine use is prolonged, it can reduce your ability to have an orgasm or experience sexual satisfaction without taking the drug [3]. Cocaine desensitizes the body to natural sexual stimuli, so users will reach for a peak of pleasure to which the body will no longer respond.

Also, some men would suffer delayed ejaculation or erectile dysfunction while women would be unable to orgasm because of the drug’s effect on blood circulation and sexual arousal. Cocaine use often leads to sexual satisfaction (at least in the mind), frustration and disappointment when the body becomes reliant on the drug for sexual pleasure.

Most people mix cocaine with sexual activity because of the short-term effects of cocaine on sexual health. When you’re in the moment, increased energy, lowered inhibitions, and heightened pleasure can all seem enticing. While these short-term benefits may be real, they tend to hide the long-term damage cocaine causes to sexual functioning and overall health.

Immediate Effects: Enhanced Sexual Drive Vs. Sexual Dysfunction

In the short term, cocaine can increase sexual drive by exciting the central nervous system. This can give you a bump in energy, confidence, and vigour that can enhance sex. For some, cocaine makes them feel aroused, and more inclined to be sexually active. But even during those times, sexual dysfunction might still happen. Especially for men, it can be difficult to get and maintain an erection, and for men and women, it can be difficult to reach orgasm.

Cocaine can create the illusion of improved sexual performance when used short term, but usually frustrates. The natural rhythms of the body are affected and the ability to respond properly to sexual stimuli is lessened, and many users feel slumps in satisfaction when the drug wears off.

Long-Term Consequences On Sexual Functioning And Libido

Long-term cocaine use wreaks havoc on sexual health. The dopamine regulation of the brain is continuously interfered with, leading to decreased sensitivity to pleasure, including sexual pleasure. The use of cocaine over time can make individuals feel they can’t be aroused or have sexual satisfaction without using cocaine, beginning a dependence cycle [2].

In men, chronic erectile dysfunction can occur after prolonged cocaine use, when blood flow to the genital area is reduced. Decreased libido and difficulty reaching orgasm may be experienced by women. Moreover, the emotional toll of cocaine addiction can be so destructive it ends intimacy and sexual relationships. Because of the long-term effects of cocaine, recovery is difficult even after the user stops using.

Risky sexual behaviour is strongly associated with cocaine use. The influence of the drug on decision-making and impulse control can lead to unsafe sexual practices which can have major health and emotional consequences for users.

Cocaine And Decision-Making In Sexual Situations

Cocaine erodes inhibitions and makes users more impulsive and less likely to avoid decisions they’d usually reject. This often translates into unprotected sex, multiple partners, or risky sexual behaviours in situations of sex, actions, or behaviours to which he or she would not normally consent [2]. Cocaine increases the desire for immediate gratification, and this gets in the way of the issues of long-term health and safety.

Cocaine use by users may also lead to difficulties communicating with their sexual partners clearly and may experience problems in that they don’t understand each other which may lead to misunderstandings or uncomfortable situations. Cocaine interferes with your ability to make decisions and get your emotions straight, which can damage your trust in healthy sexual relationships.

Increased Risk Of Sexually Transmitted Infections And Unsafe Practices

Cocaine use leads to impulsive behaviour that greatly increases the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and other adversities to health. Using cocaine increases the likelihood of contracting STIs, including HIV, when you have unprotected sex or have multiple sexual partners. The UK is especially concerned because in party scenes cocaine is rife and unsafe sex may be more prevalent.

Further, cocaine can have physical side effects, the most obvious of which is a reduction in sensation, which can cause a person to want to have sex a lot longer, which in turn increases the risk of physical injury or physical discomfort.

Whether cocaine enhances or erodes a person’s sex life is largely a matter of short versus long-term cocaine effects. Although it provides a quick increase in sexual energy and pleasure, the long-term effects generally, however, outweigh any good with which it may improve you temporarily.

The Perception Of Enhanced Sex Drive Vs. Reality

Cocaine makes many users feel more sexually aroused and adventurous, but the experience of cocaine is often distorted by the drug’s effect on the brain. Cocaine may give you new confidence and remit inhibition, but it’s a bad route to boost sexual drive or performance. This temporary boost of libido is almost always followed by a crash in which sexual desire drops and dysfunction increases.

The longer you do cocaine to make sex better, the more likely you will experience the physical and emotional negative consequences. Cocaine can affect the ability to enjoy sex naturally, over time making them dependent on the drug to feel any type of sexual pleasure.

Long-Term Consequences Of Mixing Cocaine And Sex

In the UK cocaine usage is so prevalent within certain circles, that the mixing of cocaine and sex is seen as part and parcel of what’s going on in some nightlife cultures. However, a mix like this has devastating long-term consequences. Long-term use of cocaine is associated with sexual dysfunction, loss of emotional intimacy and breakdown of relationships. Furthermore, the danger increases due to the higher risk of STIs and other health complications.

Finally, while cocaine might, at first, help kickstart your horny side or even boost sex in general, for the most part, it has a destructive effect on your sex life and relationships long term. To navigate the consequences of cocaine use, awareness is needed and many will require professional support to break the cycle of use, and rebuild a healthy sex life.

1. Better Health Channel. Cocaine. https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/cocaine

2. Wikipedia. Sex And Drugs. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_drugs

3. Sociology of Health & Illness. What is the relationship between drug taking and sexual risk? Social relations and social research. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/1467-9566.ep11347330

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